What a Story!

Dear Beloved of Trinity,

It’s good to be home!!

This summer in Michigan, I heard the most wonderful story. A dear friend of ours, who is 94 years old, said: “You’re never going to believe what happened to me about a month ago.”

His daughter had received a phone call from a woman who began with: “I think you might be my half-sister.” Instead of shock or anger, the news was met with curiosity and kindness. The woman, now 72 years old, explained how she had always felt a bit different—like she didn’t quite belong in her family. She knew she wasn’t adopted, yet something always seemed off. After her parents passed away, she decided to take a DNA test. What she discovered changed everything.

Through the miracle of DNA, she learned that her father was not her biological father. Long ago, some 72 years earlier at Yale, her mother had shared a romance with my friend. When her mother returned home, she never told him she was pregnant. He never knew he had a daughter.

This news came at a profound time in his life. A year or two ago, he suffered a serious heart issue and nearly died. He has been struggling to regain his health. With tears in his eyes, he said, “Now I know why I’m still alive. My daughter was looking for me, and I didn’t even know I had a daughter.”

His daughter, now accomplished and well known throughout the country, had already found financial, cultural, and societal success. Yet what she longed for most was not achievement—it was to know who her father was, to know where she came from, to know the rest of her story.

This September, they will finally meet in person. They’ve already spoken over Zoom, marveling at their similarities—their gestures, tone of voice, even their facial expressions. Her half-sister said without hesitation: “She is certainly Dad’s daughter.”

Digging a little deeper, for many people, there is a restlessness in the heart, mind, and soul. They may find success, recognition, or status, yet it can still feel as though life is lived in shoes that don’t quite fit, in a sweater that itches, or through glasses with the wrong prescription. Something feels off. Something is missing.

Through God’s love, however, things are made right. We discover who we are and whose we are. We remember that the soil from which we came is sacred. Our DNA is holy. We belong to God, who has given us a home, a family, a place of belonging and love.

It calls to mind the words of Jesus in the Gospel of John:

“In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also.”

In a world that often feels unsettling and uncertain—when we feel out of place or unsure of where we fit—God reminds us that we have a true home. We have a place, a belonging, and a being that is grounded in love.

And that … is the best story ever told!

Peace and Blessings,
Paul

 

Welcome to our new Director of Family Ministries and Family Ministries Advisor

Dear Good People of Trinity Church,

It is a joy to introduce two new members of our Trinity Church staff!

Please join me in warmly welcoming Anne Thomsen Lord, our new Director of Family Ministries, and Catherine Breed, who will serve as our Family Ministries Advisor. We are incredibly blessed to have these two faithful, wise, and dedicated leaders joining our team.

With Anne and Catherine’s guidance, we are poised to grow and strengthen our ministries for children, youth, and families—through education, service, and worship that reflect the heart of our community and the truth of the Gospel.

Their presence is a gift, and I am excited for the journey ahead as they help lead us forward in love and faith. They will officially begin on August 15.

You’ll find their bios below. I hope you’ll take a moment to read about them and join me in giving them a warm Trinity welcome.

Peace and blessings,
Paul+

Anne Thomsen Lord

Anne Thomsen Lord hails from the Nebraska prairie but has called Princeton home since 2009. She attended Arizona State University and graduated with degrees in English literature and Classics. She completed a Master’s in Christian Education and Faith Formation along with a Certificate in Theology, Ecology, and Faith Formation from Princeton Theological Seminary in 2023. 

Anne interned at St. Mary Medical Center in Langhorne, PA as an Interfaith chaplain and spent the last year working at HomeWorks Trenton, a local nonprofit. Anne loves sunshine and water and has held various positions in aquatics programs for over twenty-five years.

Since 2007, Anne has been the primary caregiver to her children. She and her spouse, Errol, have four sporty kids that challenge and inspire her. 

Catherine Breed

Catherine Breed is a religious educator with over 25 years experience working with children and youth in churches and Episcopal Schools. Most recently she taught Religion at the Lovett School in Atlanta, GA. She is a grant coordinator with StoryMakers, a non-profit creative studio in NYC which designs and produces religious education resources and curriculum.

Catherine has an undergraduate degree from the University of Virginia and Master of Arts in Christian Education from Princeton Theological Seminary. She and her husband Brennan (now a Professor of Old Testament at PTS) led the youth group at Trinity Church from 2004-2006, and she is excited to be back!

God of Grace and Glory: A Comprehensive Campaign for the Future of Trinity Church

Dear Trinity Church Family,

We are writing to share an exciting update on our God of Grace and Glory: A Comprehensive Campaign for the Future of Trinity Church.  This bold initiative to strengthen the spiritual, community, and physical foundation of Trinity Church Princeton for generations to come.

Thanks to the extraordinary generosity and commitment of many within our congregation, we have reached a significant milestone. As of today, we have received $5.3 million in commitments toward our overall goal of $7.5 million. This remarkable progress would not have been possible without the faithful support of 86 families, whose prayers and pledges have brought us this far.

The Comprehensive Campaign is designed to address the needs identified in our parish’s long-term vision. These includes the opportunity for all of us to invest in the church we love—supporting our historic buildings and sacred spaces, enriching our worship and ministries, and securing our future.

As we celebrate this achievement, we are mindful that this campaign is about more than just numbers—it is about our shared vision, our ministries, and the enduring legacy we are building together. Every commitment, no matter the size, brings us closer to reaching our goal and fulfilling our mission for generations to come.

We prayerfully invite those who have not yet had the opportunity to participate to join us in this important endeavor. Your support—whether through a cash financial pledge or through a pledge through your estate planning—is vital to the success of the Comprehensive Campaign and to the future of Trinity Church.

If you would like to learn more or have questions, please visit https://www.trinityprinceton.org/campaign or contact campaign co-chair Jeanne Garner at jeannensg@gmail.com or David Schneider at david.c.schneider@outlook.com. We would be happy to speak with you individually and share more about this exciting effort.

With gratitude and hope,

Jeannie and David

Comprehensive Campaign Co-Chairs

Set Your Sails — Be Ready

Dear Beloved of Trinity Church,

I write to you from Harbor Springs, Michigan, a beautiful town along the shores of Lake Michigan, just south of the Upper Peninsula and not far from Mackinac Island. For over twenty years, my family and I have been blessed to spend part of our summers here. If our timing is right, we get to witness the annual sailing regatta—an event that draws boats and sailors from across the Great Lakes.

These boats are not only beautiful but often extremely sophisticated. Their crews are seasoned and skilled. And yet, despite all their training and technology, they remain utterly dependent on one thing: the wind. Without it, they sit motionless. And when the wind comes, they must set their sails carefully and wisely to capture its power. No amount of skill or equipment can compensate for its absence.

This, dear friends, is a powerful—if imperfect—metaphor for our spiritual lives. Whether we are navigating life with seasoned faith or just beginning to explore the waters of belief, we all need the wind of the Spirit to move us. We may prepare our vessels, hoist our sails, and chart our course, but without the breath of God—without the Spirit—we go nowhere.

The Spirit of God is the wind that fills our sails, the unseen force that moves us forward with purpose, power, and direction. It is only in relationship to that divine movement that we find our true course. It is the tension between our sails and that sacred wind that carries us across the waters of life—sometimes calm, often choppy—toward a destination that is holy and meaningful.

So, I invite you in the week ahead: in your heart, in your soul, in your imagination—set your sails. Be ready. Wait and watch for the Spirit’s stirring. It may come as a gentle breeze or a sudden gust, but it will come. And when it does, may it move you in ways that are wondrous and unexpected, sometimes challenging, yet always sacred.

Forward in faith!

Peace and Blessings,

Paul+

Forward in Faith!

Dear Friends,

By the time you read this, I will have arrived in Michigan, where I will be serving the people of St. John’s Church in Harbor Springs for the next four weeks. During this time apart, please know that I will hold you close in heart and prayer—and I ask that you do the same for me and my family.

During this time, I invite you to reflect upon who we are as the people of Trinity Church, and how God is working in and through us in unique and beautiful ways. There is only one Trinity Church in Princeton—only one in the entire world. And we have our own distinct way of embodying and proclaiming the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I believe God is calling us to something meaningful in the year ahead—something that will bring life and light to the world.

In the weeks to come, I encourage you to reflect on the following quote from John O’Donohue’s book Eternal Echoes. Let it speak to your own journey, and also to our shared calling as the people of Trinity Church:

“There are no manuals for the construction of the individual you would like to become. You are the only one who can decide this and take up the lifetime of work that it demands. This is a wonderful privilege and such an exciting adventure. To grow into the person that your deepest longing desires is a great blessing. If you can find a creative harmony between your soul and your life, you will have found something infinitely precious. You may not be able to do much about the great problems of the world or to change the situation you are in, but if you can awaken the eternal beauty and light of your soul, you will bring light wherever you go. The gift of life is given to us for ourselves and also to bring peace, courage, and compassion to others.”

  • Who is God calling us to become?

  • How do we find creative harmony with one another—and with God?

  • How do we meet the challenges of this moment in history with courage and hope?

  • How can we awaken in ourselves a beauty and light that brings peace, compassion, and justice to others?

There is important and holy work before us. May we trust in the goodness, grace, and love of God to lead us into the fullness of life—for God’s glory and for the care of all God’s children.

Forward in faith!

Peace and Blessings,

Paul+

Trinity Luncheon

Treasures for Trinity Luncheon

July 30th 10:30AM-2:00 PM

Donate and Celebrate!

As a tribute to our 50th Annual Rummage Sale on October 16-18 the Boutique Department is reviving the tradition of the Treasures for Trinity Luncheon. Bring your treasure and join us in the George Thomas on July 30th, from 10:30am-2:00 PM for a celebratory lunch and conversation. Your early participation will enable the Boutique staff to properly price your contribution and provide buyers with a provenance, or a great story. 

So, scour your attics, basements and closets for treasures you would like to part with which will support our outreach partners in the Trenton area! Tax deduction forms will be available.

Please rsvp by July 25th to eschercon@msn.com or rjcilenti@gmail.com

Let's collaborate on making this the best sale ever and celebrate this legendary sale on its half century anniversary!

 
 

Groaning Old

Dear Beloved of Trinity,

Earlier this week, I had a wonderful visit with residents at one of our nearby assisted living communities. Twice each month, we gather for conversation and share in the celebration of Holy Communion.

These visits are always a source of deep joy and meaning. I hear stories of childhood and marriage, of children and grandchildren, of politics and religion, of struggles and celebrations—nothing is off the table. We talk about it all.

During one visit, a resident shared that she is writing a collection of essays titled Groaning Old, not Growing Old. She spoke of her desire to be fully alive in the days ahead—not simply to sit and wait for death, but to draw on the wide expanse of her life experience to keep learning, living, and sharing with others. As she spoke, heads nodded around the circle. The others echoed her yearning: to be fully alive, fully engaged, still useful, still needed.

I pray for the privilege of growing old—something not everyone receives. And whether we admit it or not, each day we are growing older. May we walk this journey with grace, courage, wisdom, and love.

 

Not groaning, but growing.

Not complaining, but creating.

Not passively waiting, but actively embracing each day, each moment, each breath. 

Blessings,
Paul+

For Old Age 

May the light of your soul mind you.

 May all your worry and anxiousness about your age

be transfigured. 

May you be given wisdom for the eyes of your soul

To see this as a time of gracious harvesting.

May you have the passion to heal what has hurt you,

and allow it to come closer and become one with you.

 

May you have great dignity,

And a sense of how free you are,

Above all, may you be given the wonderful gift

Of meeting the eternal light that is within you.

 

May you be blessed;

And may you find a wonderful love

In yourself for yourself.

 ― John O'Donohue

 From Walking in Wonder: Eternal Wisdom 

for A Modern World

 

Prayers for Our Nation

Dear Beloved of Trinity Church,

This week, we joined in celebrating the independence of our country—a time to give thanks for the gifts, possibilities, and opportunities this land offers. We honored those who have given their lives in service to our nation and those whose vision, wisdom, and courage shaped its founding ideals. We celebrated the best of who we are, and we acknowledged the ongoing work of becoming who we are meant to be.

At the same time, we recognized the imperfections and injustices that continue to mark our national story. We are still, in many ways, a young nation—growing, learning, and seeking greater wisdom. There is still much to heal, much to learn, and much to do as we strive toward deeper maturity: in leadership, in service, and in responsibility - both at home and abroad.

We have much to be grateful for. We also have much to reckon with—and to renew. May we live more fully into the dream God holds for this country, and for all who call it home.

I offer the following prayers for your reflection and hope they will guide our hearts in this season. 

Happy 4th of July!

Peace and Blessings to all,

Paul

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For the Human Family

O God, you made us in your own image and redeemed us
through Jesus your Son: Look with compassion on the whole
human family; take away the arrogance and hatred which
infect our hearts; break down the walls that separate us;
unite us in bonds of love; and work through our struggle and
confusion to accomplish your purposes on earth; that, in
your good time, all nations and peoples may serve you in
harmony around your heavenly throne; through Jesus Christ
our Lord. Amen.

For our Country

Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our
heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove
ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will.
Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and
pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion;
from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend
our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes
brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue
with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust
the authority of government, that there may be justice and
peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we
may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth.
In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness,
and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail;
all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.  

For Peace

Eternal God, in whose perfect kingdom no sword is drawn
but the sword of righteousness, no strength known but the
strength of love: So mightily spread abroad your Spirit, that
all peoples may be gathered under the banner of the Prince of
Peace, as children of one Father; to whom be dominion and
glory, now and for ever. Amen

For our Enemies

O God, the Father of all, whose Son commanded us to love
our enemies: Lead them and us from prejudice to truth:
deliver them and us from hatred, cruelty, and revenge; and in
your good time enable us all to stand reconciled before you,
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

For the Mission of the Church


Everliving God, whose will it is that all should come to you
through your Son Jesus Christ: Inspire our witness to him,
that all may know the power of his forgiveness and the hope

of his resurrection; who lives and reigns with you and the
Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.